Perhaps we SHOULD be harder on each other, knowing how easy it is to falsely accuse a man of rape. If we didn’t have so many false accusations, we could have justice for the real victims. I know this can be very hard to prove at times, which is probably why it is easy to abuse. I was a victim of date rape, but I still very much believe that a falsely accused man is just as much a victim. Crying rape out of embarrassment or for revenge doesn’t benefit anyone!