I cannot agree with you more!!! I went though a divorce from a 15 year (great years) marriage. My husband developed mental problems and messed around with other women. I was shocked when someone told me to look at Match.com. I found his picture there with all the bologna he could write. He wrote that he was such a family man (he was a work-a-holic for his job) and he did a great job as a family man if he was ever home. Days would go by when our daughter never saw him. He was gone by the time she got up, and still at work when she went to bed. (Yes, he had a true problem.) But get this…. when I looked at those single websites in 2001 and then look at them now in 2009 I see the very same faces and profiles. You know…I am an average guy looking for a great down to earth girl. They always have been married before and have children. Seems they all have the same interest such as: weight lifting (I don’t know how they got the weight over those guts), loves to travel to far off islands (like how many average people with children take off any time to go to the Virgin Islands), they all have a great sense of humor, (ask the ex-wife, she could tell you how funny it was to go through a divorce and be left with nothing because he decides the grass is greener on the other side even when the mother quit her job to stay home with the baby or children to better themselves), etc… Where do these men come from. They advertise themselves like they will be terrific husbands. If that is so then what happened in the first, second, or third marriage? I am sure some women can cause the trouble but most of the time it is the man that has an affair then blames the wife for everything from missing a square inch of dust to not agreeing with his choice of flooring. Any stupid idea to ease their conscience about leaving. As I said, look today then look at the end of six months to six years. You will see the same faces and boy can they “ham” up their profiles. Debby