Most people cannot make a move without their phones.  The business, husband, boyfriend, home, the kids, the dog, the list goes on……everyone is obsess with the phone. The accidents it has cause is out of control.  Once I had a small dinner party when the phones appeared at the table I said, no phones allowed on the table during dinner.  We had a lovely time with great conversations. The phone is such a distraction not to mention the accidents they cause.

People get sided on his age, time gone by, the all is forgiven syndrome etc.  If this was a black men this conversation would not be news worthy.  Its circus time because its a celebrity.  He’ll get his hand spanked.  I believe he’s already paid $500,000 in fees.  In a few weeks he’s back in French and his life will continue. 

Many women have left their mark on me.  At different times in my life I would read or hear something amazing that would stay with me forever.  I admire strong and dynamic women.  In my early 20s I engaged in reading and through the words of many I developed a sense of what I would become.  Oprah, Maya, Cathy Black, Suze Orman, Martha Stewart, Maryanne Williamson its endless and the person who enable us all was Gloria Steinem.  I love what she said and I quote, "Women have a terminal case of gratitude".  Its like she saying, know your worth! 

My mother was born in the 20’s one of nine.  Her background wasn’t one of glamour but of helping and doing her share of household duties. I admire her so much because of her ability to become such a great lady and great beauty.  My father had his faults and mother took it as we all did.  Her motto was going along to get along.  Times have changed and women are more independent and run their own homes.  How am I different from my mother?  I stand up for myself and speak up when need to.  P.S.  My mother had the best laught of anyone I know.

Everyone should do what they want, however follow the free advise that God gave us….its inside.   Its called intuition.  When red flags go up look at them there’s always right, when one over looks it, you make bad decisions.   Women live on hope, "If I do this or that he will change or you start blameing yourself.  Women are good at that.  Mistakes are part of the dues one pays for a full life, when your young you learn, when your older you understand.  Life is to short to live with someone who’s not giving you the fulfillment you deserve.  

Isn’t it about time women get the whole cake, instead of just the crumbs?  Maya Angilou, once said, when people show you who they are….believe then!   

A. Brandon says….. it doesnt do much good to focus on the past (what Bush left us with) to stay in the here and now, well that all sounds like a nice sunny day in the park, but guess what?  The here and now is the RESULTS of yesterday years.  It’s irresponsible of you to even make such a statement. 

It’s OK for Bush to dump this mess on us, but it’s not OK for President Obama to fix it.   Can’t go forward until you clean up this economy.  The banks were given so much money and then turned around and gave millions to the employees as bonus.  ONE person received 100 million.  Why? This is economy suicide for these times.  Then you wonder, Gee, what happen OH dear, really?  They should all be sitting in the can with Bernie Madoff.