Belinda Joy….you say, how Obama has ruined our country?  What?  Are you serious?  You seem to latch on to others view of our economy state without doing your homework.  Palin isn’t nor will she ever be qualified for office she had one and left it remember?  Palin can’t even write her own book, all she does is talk and talk and says nothing.  Pres. Bush turned over the country in such financial hole filled with debts and the list goes on.  Go to www.whitehouse.gov and go to issues and learn more about the White House.

Each group have their own interest/agenda:  What about Me?…the gay benefits, the abortion rights, seniors rights, jobs, wars, religious groups, health care, the list will never end.

People are put on pedestals only to be knocked down when we’re not pleased.  President Obama didn’t walk into the White House but to a burning one, with many fires to put out. Judging the President is the pastime of many, how’s he doing at 100 days, first year?   

The opposition are about winning for political gain, not for the working class people.  We’re the only nation who profits from people’s illness.  The lobbyist put millions in their pockets from the health care industries to ensure no one rocks their money boat.  This is a known fact.  In these past days the drug industry are doubling the prices of drugs, getting all they can if they’re to be regulated, this is shameful.  Money is the best lubricant wouldn’t you say?  The greatness moment for the GOP is to see our President fail and their negative agenda isn’t going to make this country better.  Finding fault but never favor expressing opposition without alternatives.

Is this the new buzz word, Its the "whatever" word you may use and finish it off with stupid? How high school of you.  The other day Andrea Mitchell (MSNBC) was speaking with Tom Brokow who covered the news in Berlin 20 years ago.  I was shocked when Andrea said to Mr. Brokow…yea, well, I’m glad you didn’t screw it up.  What is this?  Andrea is up in age and for her to address anyone like some hip reporter was undignified and unprofessional.  Where’s the social grace and decorum? 

Abortion, abortion, abortion! Covering the millions with health care is has turned into an abortion issue.  How many years has this been going on?  Everybody new cause is attaching themselves to the bandwagon for justices for abortion.  If people are so high on the abortion rights, then why after 30-40 years or so is this still going on?

Most people cannot make a move without their phones.  The business, husband, boyfriend, home, the kids, the dog, the list goes on……everyone is obsess with the phone. The accidents it has cause is out of control.  Once I had a small dinner party when the phones appeared at the table I said, no phones allowed on the table during dinner.  We had a lovely time with great conversations. The phone is such a distraction not to mention the accidents they cause.

People get sided on his age, time gone by, the all is forgiven syndrome etc.  If this was a black men this conversation would not be news worthy.  Its circus time because its a celebrity.  He’ll get his hand spanked.  I believe he’s already paid $500,000 in fees.  In a few weeks he’s back in French and his life will continue. 

Many women have left their mark on me.  At different times in my life I would read or hear something amazing that would stay with me forever.  I admire strong and dynamic women.  In my early 20s I engaged in reading and through the words of many I developed a sense of what I would become.  Oprah, Maya, Cathy Black, Suze Orman, Martha Stewart, Maryanne Williamson its endless and the person who enable us all was Gloria Steinem.  I love what she said and I quote, "Women have a terminal case of gratitude".  Its like she saying, know your worth! 

My mother was born in the 20’s one of nine.  Her background wasn’t one of glamour but of helping and doing her share of household duties. I admire her so much because of her ability to become such a great lady and great beauty.  My father had his faults and mother took it as we all did.  Her motto was going along to get along.  Times have changed and women are more independent and run their own homes.  How am I different from my mother?  I stand up for myself and speak up when need to.  P.S.  My mother had the best laught of anyone I know.

Everyone should do what they want, however follow the free advise that God gave us….its inside.   Its called intuition.  When red flags go up look at them there’s always right, when one over looks it, you make bad decisions.   Women live on hope, "If I do this or that he will change or you start blameing yourself.  Women are good at that.  Mistakes are part of the dues one pays for a full life, when your young you learn, when your older you understand.  Life is to short to live with someone who’s not giving you the fulfillment you deserve.  

Isn’t it about time women get the whole cake, instead of just the crumbs?  Maya Angilou, once said, when people show you who they are….believe then!