happiness-from a job, a man, being thin etc. life has as much saddness as it has happiness -learning to find the joy in living and dealing and growing and not looking for the elusive “happiness”-thats what i believe brings peace and contentment

i work at a hotel -we work very hard to keep things as clean and safe as they can be- we have occasionally had a cockroach appear- this is a old building in the middle of a city with 2 resturants cockroaches have survived since the beginning of time-it dosen’t mean a place is dirty just tell the staff very nicely and they will help you no need to be indignant bedbugs on the other hand are a different issue- again there is a resugerence -hotels are doing their best - try and check if you can we don’t live in a bug free or germ free world-it wouldn’t be good for us if we did-

what difference does it make if the mother works or not? bullies are and have always been a horrible problem in schools no parent believes that their child could possibly do such things -and everyone is appalled- in this day of video cameras and cell phone cameras may be we can catch the culprits red handed then lawsuits and school suspensions might be in order i think that the guilty parties should be forced to go to some kind of behavior training-with their parents i also think teachers and schools should be more responsible- when this happened in my sons class i asked my son to take responsibilty for the child and to stand up for him of course my son was 6 feet tall in eighth grade and kind of leader so it didnt really put him on the spot

it was an interesting article and im glad its out there-only wish more people were reading it and learning its leason obama has been accused of being politcal in giving this race speech -how ridiculous -if he were just trying to turn off the heat he would have denounced the man and distanced himself-instead he told america a truth that could potentially hurt his campagin -he has shown such courage -honesty and dignity -i am so sadened when this kind of character is not being recognized by the public -he is the kind of person this country needs so badly-and the first truly presidental person i have seen for a long time not to be controversial myself but-isnt it true that some of the policies that america has followed have lead to our being hated and attacked by ours in the world -clearly i’m not saying we deserve it but we must as a people consider that you reap what you sow -and perhaps look to a man to be our president who will lead us in a new and more compassionate forgien policy than the one that has made us so many enimies why do some candidates get so praised for being “fighters” when what we need are leaders who want to unite and help other nations achieve a stake in keeping peace

with respect to 2 lovely boys who lost a mother that loved them-all i care about are the causes she championed and the good attention she brought them

i can think of no woman in public life right now more qui;ified to run for president than hilary clinton-that being said-i am a firm supporter of obama—she can fight and campagian with the best of the boys-i for one want a change from this ridculous kind of wheeling and dealing and a chance to try something new that might actually make the average person feel like government meant something in their lives again

memoirs will always be colored by the writers perspective of the truth a—as are all “conversations -but outright lies are inexcusable in the field and should not be brushed over fiction is an open avenue for any one who has a point to make-yes publishers are responsible for what they print

sorry computer glitz-or operator glitz don’t know for sure-anyway thank you for the web site to liz smith -read your book natural blonde -honest, funny , total lack of egotisim- got it at the dollar store by the way -don’t knock it -you gained a fan whoopie-love you on the view -a voice of reason and kindness mary wells -who does your hair -that is the look i want -can i have a picture question of the day—can we address the issue of how men are raised - it is so degrading to pictures them as animals with no controll-yes their drives are different-but this is shophmoric behavior that has nothing to do with the basic differences between men and women-should she stand by her man-it’s up to her-we don’t know their relatioship-private issue-lets get it out of the public arena -and talk about genocide in dafur-starving children in america-the death of the middle class-things that matter in our lives thanks again for the web site and for the chance to not have to scroll down an inch before find my birth year