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Kelly F

Kelly F

My Comments (10 so far…)

Dear Margo: Marrying For Money Is a Tough Way To Earn a Living

Perhaps if LW wants to be taken care of for her looks, she could give being a sugar baby a crack:  http://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/12/magazine/12sugardaddies-t.html

Getting a degree however is a much more stable way to ensure financial security. Your BA won’t up and leave for another woman. 

Dear Margo: When Three Is Not a Crowd

Yeah, it is really important to know what it was that so horrified her. If it was child porn, then yes, she should keep any grankids away from grandpa. If it was BDSM, then she should go buy some handcuffs.

Dear Margo: When Three Is Not a Crowd

Why is bondage lumped together with snuff films and child porn? Bondage is something that many couples enjoy. Don’t knock it just because you don’t like it, don’t imply that kinky people are the same as criminals.

How My Decision About a Late-Term Abortion Affected My Marriage, by Alice Eve Cohen

If you believe the disabled are a minority group like other minority groups, then yes.

Genocide is simply defined by the UN as an attempt to eliminate a group from either one place, or everywhere. It’s not doesn’t even have to be mass murder. They also list sterilizations of the women to keep them from reproducing. 

My mother was told she should end my life because I was going to be disabled. Thankfully, she recognized that being disabled does not mean you don’t have a right to live. (She was trying to have a baby, and would not have aborted a healthy one)

 (I would concede that any birth defect that is fatal soon after birth doesn’t fit into the disabled-as-a-minority framework) 

How My Decision About a Late-Term Abortion Affected My Marriage, by Alice Eve Cohen

You’re comparing 9 months of pregnancy to a lifetime of servitude, abuse, malnutrition etc? Without any hope of freedom, ever? With no ability to make any choices for oneself? Seriously?

How My Decision About a Late-Term Abortion Affected My Marriage, by Alice Eve Cohen

I think there is a fundamental assumption that pro-choice people have, which is that fetuses are not babies, but organs. Given that assumption, then there is nothing wrong with abortion. But no one has ever convinced me, or a large number of people in this country, that a baby is not a baby just because it’s not viable outside the womb. It has a heart, and a brain, and brainwaves, and different genetic material. 

As for giving up your organs for another person, it’s not the best analogy. It is unfair that 50% of humans can never be subjected to an unwanted pregnancy, arbitrarily saying that it is ok to end the life of a baby because the woman doesn’t want to be pregnant for a relatively short period of time doesn’t make sense to me. It would be nice if no one ever had an unwanted pregnancy, and yes it is unfair that some people aren’t at risk for that, but thats not a justification for killing. I believe there is one case where a person can be obligated to support another life with their body. With the exception of rape, the situation one person is dependent on the support of another is caused by the actions of one of the mother. Just because the situation is unfair to the woman who got pregnant compared to the man who impregnated her doesn’t mean that this should be rectified by killing the baby. 

So yes, if it’s my child, because the only way to NOT donate those things would be to directly end their life.

 While the baby/fetus debate is at the heart of all abortions, I was drawn to the comments on this article by the horrible assumption that in the case of disability, abortion is more justified. 

How My Decision About a Late-Term Abortion Affected My Marriage, by Alice Eve Cohen

does "uncorrectable birth defect" mean deafness, mental retardation, blindness, CP? People with these conditions can live meaningful lives. If your real reason is to avoid caring for them, you should at least admit that. (Granted there are things out there that might cause suffering throughout life but, I have a feeling you aren’t talking about that)

How My Decision About a Late-Term Abortion Affected My Marriage, by Alice Eve Cohen

Not everyone sees a fetus as the same as a kidney. Some people see it as a person. Who happens to be occupying your uterus.

How My Decision About a Late-Term Abortion Affected My Marriage, by Alice Eve Cohen

To many people, aborting "defective" babies is tantamount to genocide. Since their parents are able-bodied and able-minded, the dominant group is able to end their lives before they begin.

The Love Goddess: Rainbowing. You Better Sit Down for This One

Both of these are urban myths that no one can show any evidence for real life origins. I had never read your column before and I was interested to see what it was about, but I’ve lost any respect for you as a source of any type of reliable information because (a) this is an OLD urban myth and (b) a quick google search on the topic would reveal that it was the product of mass parental hysteria. It’s possible that somewhere at sometime, probably after hearing about such things from the media, some teens decided to spice up their already existing sex lives with some bracelets, but seriously, this is more indicative of the fear and fascination adults have about teen sexuality than how things actually are.

http://www.snopes.com/risque/school/bracelet.asp

http://www.nytimes.com/2005/06/30/fashion/thursdaystyles/30rainbow.html?_r=1&pagewanted=2