i got 20 in my bank account, 15 in my wallet, working tonite, bartending n gonna get sum cash, i just bought a recording studio for my apartment, so just spent it all, and i gotta a check coming in the mail, whoohoo.

Thats beautiful, Im coming out of a rough 5 year relationship, i feel indifferent about dating and men at this point, I guess it’s nice to leave that little space of possibility in my mind.

Mary! thank you thank you thank you for your statement “I don’t believe in birthdays because I think your mind controls your body and if you think you’re getting old, you will.” I truly believe this, i see women focusing so much on the decline of the body, and why does everyone ask for your age? I refuse to go along with the resentment a lot of people have with aging. I say Choose the age you want your body to be and stick with it!!! The mind is incredibly powerful, one only has to know a hypochondriac to see this reality. its crazy! Yet, a life of Joy, Self Love & acceptance, and a nice sex life helps with the timeless beauty. Excited and supportive of this site, thanks for your time. BEBE