Clearly Shirley you are not single and living in Orange County, California; either that or you are under 40; or, you have accepted the fact that you will live alone the rest of your life; if you were single and living in “The OC”, you would know that admitting you are over 40 is tantamount to admitting you have leprosy; God love you for living in a place and/or situation where your age does not handicap you; I’m sure your husband and/or neighbors and friends celebrate right along with you…