What I would tell my personal designer: I am 54 years old and not in particularly good shape - size 16 - fluffy is the word I like - but I clean up ok. I have lost about 25 pounds, so I feel pretty good about myself. Single after a long long marriage, so frumpy just won’t do. My upper arms have not seen the light of day in 15 years. I do not have much discretionary money to spend on clothes. I work full time and have an active social life - jeans rather than cocktail dresses - (dancing after 50 is SO liberating!). I would like to show off my assets, and downplay the rest of it. Because of “personal thermostat difficulties”, I prefer cotton and natural fabrics. Please - fluffy does not always do well with knits. How about comfortable structure? I would rather have a cheap top that I wear for 2 years than a classic that I will have for 20 years. I like variety, and who knows what size I will be in 20 years??? I do not want to dress like either my 87 year old mother, nor my 20 year old daughter - both of whom are beautiful; but I would like some sort of personal style. Anyone out there up to the challenge?