I don’t use perfumes. I like to wear oils. They last longer and I don’t break out like I do with Vera Wang and other designer perfumes. I love to wear coconut, Frankincense and Muir in the winter. I also clean with the oils. It is a great sent in the home and it clears all negative energy.

I can not, absolutely can not live without MUSIC. Rap, Hip-Hop, R&B, Rock, Pop, Gospel and Classical (sorry I hate punk and Country)! If I cant listen to music every day, sing it every day, breathe it everyday. Well, you might as well kill me now!

Well, if we are talking about Rock & Roll Tina Turner. But if we are talking about R&B I would love to be the Queen of Hip & Hop and R&B Mary J. Blieg!

Thank You! My only regret is that the I can’t extend my weekend.

I want to lay around this weekend with my French boy toy and…… Well, you know the rest!

Hell yes! At the age of 18 I went from becoming a Baptist to a Catholic! Yes! a CATHOLIC!

His name is Paul. We have known each other since elementary school. We kept in touch a year or two after his mother died. I continue to look for him. I hear he is married and she is a real bitch. I don’t want to break up his marriage. I would just love to sit and talk like we use to. This is does not relate to the question of the day but…… Rest in peace Harvey Corman.

There are and were a lot of shows I watched during my childhood and as an adult. The one show that means the most to me is the Carol Burnett Show. It was the one show that my father and I would watch together. Watching the show and having tea parties are the best memories I have of my father. When we watched the show we would laugh so hard, our bellies would hurt. A few years later my parents separated and 20 years ago, my father died. But when I watch clips of the show, I smile, laugh and remember that very special time in my life. I hope to meet Ms. Burnett some day. I want to tell her the best years of my life was watching that show with my father.

pattie labelle’s over the rainbow mac and cheese. If you have high cholesterol and high blood pressure; this is NOT for you. You can find the recipe at oprah.com

Oh, I forgot An Affair to Remember!

I cant decide! On one hand Auntie Mame! On the other hand Now Voyager. Then I think of Bridges of Madison County. There is just too many! Arrrrgggh!

I LOVE that movie!

The wedding band my father gave to my mother.

I am all of the above!

I use to be alone because of childhood trauma and not knowing who to trust and who was safe. I find that I need solitude because I talk all day for a living. I need at least two or three hours and then I can be with the world. Lately I crave a more intimate relationship with a man. I crave to share myself emotionally, spiritually, intellectually and physically. I believe it will come along and I have a lot of patience.