Deborah—-If the president and the vice-president also have their children in Iraq, I am sure your son would return safely very soon. The trouble of that it is not the case! So why don’t you write to the White House and ask for that? Ask them why your son is fighting for the country and theirs are not ???!!!!!!dancewu(dot)net

Sabrina—- No kidding!—- dancewu(dot)net

Suzanne de Cornelia—- You have attacked me so far twice. And I never attacked you once! Because I do not care who you are, where did you come from, I did not want to waste time with you. I came to this interesting site because I liked what I saw in Charlie Rose PBS. I was impressed very much of Lesley ‘s wit and her beauty, and I found out more about Liz Smith and I liked more of her courage, as she reminded me a lot of Meryl Streep, always spoke her mind these days. As for you, the only thing I found out about you is that you might have some head injury problem as you mentioned. Any way I will forget everything about what you did to me, and I want nothing to do with you ever again. please do not answer.—- dancewu(dot)net

It is still my opinion that both man and wman were born naturally not monogamous. they are monogamous because they wanted to be! So “Woman’s site” or not is against my believe. My believe is that both men and women are born equal. —— Do you think this is the opposite of the men’s club in “OUT OF AFRICA” ?—- When you made a judgement that I am being jugemental—- I am sorry to say that is also judgemental too!—- dancewu(dot)net

Sue—- That was the name of the girl friend I was going out with years after my wife separated from me. The day Suzanne,the name Sue preferred to be called, left me for her former boyfriend in Delaware was also the day my wife divorced me in court! If I drew that scene in my autobiography, of which I have not gotten that far into it yet, will be a cry-baby, trying very hard not to let the tears blocking the driving on I- 287…… Now, to answer your question, I am working on my graphic autobiography, on and off, because it is not a simple job for me. For example, how truthful I could be in revealing myself, without hurting anyone. I cannot be that self-fish to cause trouble to some one else?! If I do not tell the truth, then I better not doing anything. Even Picasso, at his early days in Paris, he sketched his lover and himself making love, and yet his grand daughter was so proud of him to publish a book of his work years later…..dancewu(dot)net

Suzanne—- When I received two “A” s for two semesters from life drawing class at the Cooper Union, a free tuition college I attended to when I first came to this beautiful country in 1956, and then I had another two “A”s in architectural design class from the Chairman of design at Pratt later, I knew that I had something unusual to live in this life! Yes?—— No! Suzaane, I ended up into being a bitter old man with nothing accomplished, and with no money and no one except a dear daughter ( a very SUCCESSFUL CPA) and three lovely grand children! I worked and struggled all my life, yet mostly in between jobs, and my ex-wife said to me, “If you don’t have money to live on, but your daughter needs to be supported.” No wonder a genius like Le Corbusier would agree to be married but never wanted to bring a child into this world, because he realized how hard a life an architect would lead. The topic here is about how many people did I sleep with (monogamous until after divorce, about 45 approximately), sorry to say, most of my life as an architect, although as romantic as it sounded from the outside, is mostly about the harsh survival of an artist. Yes, I am a failure as a husband, as a father, and as an architect.( although I worked for I.M.Pei; Skidmore, Owings & Merrill, etc.) And yet I don’t want to believe that I am a failure as an artist, because I was born as an artist. No! fate could take away my life, but fate can never take away what I am the best of—- drawing! That is the reason why I want to express myself through my best gift, drawing , to do an unusual book- A GRAPHIC AUTOBIOGRAPHY.—- dancewu(dot)net

Fern—- Yours is one of the best I have ever heard of———dancewu(dot)net

I used to say this:——-both man and woman are naturally born not monogamous. If they are, just because they wanted to!—dancewu(dot)net

Sabina sounds like a lively person. That is great! I envy you. I think I am a half dead person by now. Although I still try to take walks every day, dance as much as possible, bench-press twice a day, but since the surgery three years ago, I am no longer the same person anymore. That is why I have such an urge to USE MY BEST TALENT to draw my past life as the way I witnessed it through my eyes. I have a good memory and the ability to illustrate it. For example, I could draw the floor plans of all the residences I ever lived in, I can draw faces I met from childhood either in caricature or representationally. I was always the top in drawing and design in all the classes I ever went to. Therefore I would be able to do this GRAPHIC AUTOBIOGRAPHY.—- I want to finish it before I am gone.—-dancewu(dot)net

Margo Porter—-Good point!—- dancewu(dot)net

That is precisely why people like Liz Smith Is Liz Smith; and you are you. Who are you? Cham G.? You are not even brave enough to use your real name here. No wonder you have no courage to face the real life! Please do not judge other people! Mind your own business!—- dancewu(dot)net

Sara C—-We lived in a different time now, I believed that was when Rock Hudson died of AIDS, that news shocked the world. This is a very interesting question and a very daring one! The person who asked such a question today has great courage to make a survey of how people, directly coming from the Victorian age into a sexual revolution and practicing an AIDS QUARANTINE AT THE VERY MOMENT! Where do we go from here? I love Liz Smith’s answer also. Being a virgin or not has nothing honorable to be bragged about. It is still very much a personal choice! People are the way they are because of many factors, such as the birth order of the person in the family, what society one lives in, how consevertive the family is, etc. making up the person. That does not necessary mean that at 23 still a virgin( I was a virigin at 23 also) is a saint!—-I am so disappointed that even today a number of them still live in the 19 th century! and fighting the religious wars…..dancewu(dot)net

Elaborate please, although you do not have to draw a picture as I do. Thank you.—-dancewu(dot)net

I am a 71 years old Chinese -American man. I am going to tell any one who is curious enough and to want to know how many I have slept with. By the way, have you ever heard of any one ever tried to do a graphic autobiography yet. I have started one! I came up with this idea many years ago, and I have been collecting memories, in graphic forms and ready to go. Exiciting?! In my graphic autobiography, the FIRST I EVER HEARD OF, I will start from about five years old, the day the Japanese soldiers invaded Hong Kong, 17 days after Pearl Harbor, to my first love at 14,(that hurt me for my entire life),until dating in college and got married the month of graduation, immediately travelled around the world in 90 days, and came back to New York to start my hard life as an architect in 1963. Being divorced by the wife after 21 years later, I really thought I was a failure. I went out to the single world to prove myself, that saved my life! It only took me over twenty years to forget being bitter about the divorce….Until now I have not been dating for eight years now. It is a good time to draw the final chapter of my romantic life! Some one still remembered Meryl Streep’s “Out of Africa”, I have seen that movie three times. I loved it. Why don’t I tell my romantic stories also. If people interested how a romantic ARTIST/ ARCHITECT lived his happy and sad life, they could see his story from his very eyes, through the drawings from memories, unfolded one by one, shared each with the world. You are going to find out how many did I sleep with in my GRAPHIC AUTOBIOGRAPHY. Are those women beautiful or ugly, young or old, romantic or not…..dancewu(dot)net

Janie— Meryl Streep, Greta Garbo….. They are beautiful. And they are timeless. We like to remember them at their prime. But to me, maybe just me, A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IS ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL, even at old ages. But within all the beautiful images through the years, there must be one particular one is her own favorite. I am an old man of 71, but my favorite photo is the one that I took in Hawaii when I first came to this country of opportunities 52 years ago. A lot of beautiful memories to go with that picture!-dancewu(dot)net