Lena B

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Hey De how about, "You heard WHAT on Fox News?!"

What living American woman has had the biggest impact on our lives?

Thank you macwoof woof, it’s actually a good save. I realized that I didn’t read the question—it asked for women living, not dead. But when I was about to erase the entire comment, I thought that it was still applicable and posted it anyway.

What living American woman has had the biggest impact on our lives?

Hi Star—it’s nice to see you! Yes indeed Sanger was way out there with eugenics and I believe it tainted her role in history as a visionary. Her story is taught way too late to be appreciated by (sexually active) students. My oldest daughter learned about her in her junior year of high school. By the way, through helping my daughter on a report, I learned a lot about Sanger and birth control methods used in the past—what an eye opener.

What living American woman has had the biggest impact on our lives?

I made the point of Sanger to state that the amazing modern living female icons praised here had the freedom of living to their full potential.

What living American woman has had the biggest impact on our lives?

I agree with many here giving praise to outstanding women. My choice is Margaret Sanger. Without being able to plan and control my fertility, I (and millions of women) would always be pregnant! Birth control created the modern woman. Sanger persevered in extreme opposition not only to advocate for birth control, but for women’s health. And although she was extremely controversial for her views on negative eugenics, there is no denying that she changed human reproduction forever.

What is the quality you most like in a man?

As a lover of men, I agree with you Cindy. I stated in an earlier post that I gravitate to males more than females. As I’ve matured, I’ve noticed a subtle but relevant shift in attitude. It appears to me that as women age, they abandon those catty characteristics that kept me on the fence of sisterhood. Older men on the other hand become more self-absorbed and interested in attracting the attention of younger prey LOL. They no longer enjoy the company of a contemporary. A nod of respect, maybe a kind gesture or two but that’s it. It’s funny, but I’m not angry, just a little disappointed. Now the young men are all the rage. They want to talk and learn about things because they know as older women, most of us are nurturing spirits and willing to share. I never had romantic notions about men, but I certainly appreciate one my age who values my uniqueness.

What is the quality you most like in a man?

Intelligence is sexy. Not the snobby elitist kind, but the everyone is interesting kind. A man who loves life and appreciates the people around him. A man who is confident and strong.

I was never stuck on a set type of man when I was dating. I looked for something ethereal. Maybe it was the way I caught him looking at me or the way he spoke to the server at the restaurant or how he walked. I found that I limited myself by setting a certain standard on men and people in general. Like the Ray Stevens song, "Everyone is beautiful, in their own way."

Liz Smith: Peering Into Oscar's Crystal Ball

That week Roots ran on T.V. was a revelation for my generation. I felt sick when Kizzy was violated. No one talked about slavery rape—real taboo. Not to mention that most of us still living in the south wanted to say we were mixed with Native American ancestry—right? Now I’m told my Great-Grand was Cherokee. Mom went to the archives and found the 1880 Census were Great Grand is listed as "M" for Mulatto. Now that racial designation was used when the census taker knew they were looking at a bi-racial person. Mom is still looking for Great Grand’s parent’s census information.

But back to the movie, I didn’t even recognize Mariah Carey! LOL I heard she did a great job as well as the new comer who plays Precious. I just don’t know if I can sit through the movie though, the book was very emotional. I absolutely hate to cry in public.

Liz Smith: Peering Into Oscar's Crystal Ball

Hey Belinda! You went deep throwing out the analogy on the rape theory. I’ll read the article because I love to learn more about psychological studies. The Italian sister didn’t know she had color issues either LOL. I follow you—you keep it real. And like you said, this movie is keeping it really real. I read the book too and it was dark and disturbing, like Toni Morrison’s The Bluest Eye. Push is a true redemption story in the African American context of poverty, teenage pregnancy, abuse and the other really bad stuff that’s revealed along the way. Mo’Nique has grabbed a golden break out role, they’re talking Oscar nom—wow. I haven’t seen a perfectly evil female role like that since Kathy Bates in Misery. I hope Mo’ gets the statue.

Are there certain topics about which you think men and women will always disagree? What are they? Why won't we ever agree?

Don’t you think the differences make it so interesting C? Diversity of mind is a beautiful thing. It’s a continuous process of learning new ideas and hopefully modifying your own. I’ve learned so much from men, more than I have from women in my opinion. When I watch a movie or play, I usually identify with the male character. I don’t know why. I love and respect my sisters, but I don’t have a sororial ( I made that word up ) bone in my body. Being here on Wow has been a huge benefit to me; I’m learning from some of the most amazingly intelligent female minds. Before I post a comment, I read the entire thread and the knowledge and wisdom shared here is outstanding. Thank you sisters!

Are there certain topics about which you think men and women will always disagree? What are they? Why won't we ever agree?

As a married woman, I agree wholeheartedly with Tara Jane and Linda. I will not war with the men over our differences. I consider it a blessing that we don’t mirror each other. Things are peaceful in my home because we both want it that way. Everything else is negotiable.

Margo Howard: The Origins of Obama Rage?

I’m grateful for your compliment L. C. It’s good to see you here.

Margo Howard: The Origins of Obama Rage?

That’s high praise coming from you Count. Thank you.

Margo Howard: The Origins of Obama Rage?

I don’t have any solution Margo and Count other than the obvious and impossible, that people need to evolve into human beings that respect ALL humanity. I’m from the south, indoctrinated in racial struggle all of my life. I can’t adequately convey the pride and the fear of most African Americans. The stage is set for something terrible and all of our eyes are watching. I pray for the coarseness of the bigots to soon abate. It’s an exorcism for sure, 360 degree head spins and vomiting green pea soup. It looks dangerous. And it could result in innocent people being verbally/physically attacked or killed.

I believe the media coverage plays a big part in giving this belligerence a platform. Free speech withstanding, what happened to respect and dignity? How is hurling insults at President Obama going to solve the nation’s problems? It’s a non-constructive use of time and energy. Playing to the the lowest common denominator for shock value and advertising dollars at the expense of national security. There are appropriate ways to protest government policies than demanding the severed head of the president! When people go that far, they’ve gone too far and they know it.

I personally don’t believe that every person who disagrees with the Obama administration is a racist. But I hope that those who partner with or cater to racist ideology for political puposes realize depth of depravity they have sunk to.