I too will reconsider the content Suzanne Conti and Iris. I had some technical difficulties with the page last night and this morning, so I couldn’t comment on the changing tide of discussion. Sarcasm is difficult to detect in writing. Being a highly sensitive person, I’m often accused of over-reacting to what is supposed to be funny. I have a good since of humor but it’s different from everyone in my family. Hubby accuses me of hating cheap humor. I don’t hate it, it just doesn’t make me laugh out loud. I’m glad we can put this discussion to bed knowing that the working class wasn’t being offended. Oh and Suzanne Conti (President) thank you for the kind words earlier in the post. You and the other sisters have already elevated me by allowing me to read your intelligent thoughts and respond with mine. (smile)

Island fabulous said it well. Men don’t understand that we WANT to respect you. However, if we don’t receive our part in the love relationship, OVERT LOVE, the relationship will not meet it’s full potential of being mutually satisfying to both. Overt love is being demonstrative in word and deed. Some guys believe that the initial attempt to woo the woman is sufficient-WRONG! I was moved by a reporters recent trip to someplace in Italy, where he witnessed working class men returning home after work with flowers and wine. It’s a small romantic gesture, but much more that most women I know (including me) get.

All in favor say “I”. WE DEMAND SUBSTANCE ON THIS SITE! I am here to be elevated. If my sisters are reading something or watching something that will benefit me and help me grow - it’s great! I don’t want to talk about decorating tips, gardening or what to wear to the charity ball!!! Go to Martha Stewart’s site for that. Let’s be real here and elevate each other. Oh and BTW, SUZANNE FOR PRESIDENT!

Thank you sister. (smile)

I know ki!! LOL!!! Dr. Mark and the crew need to find somewhere else to play.

You have elevated the role of “Devil’s Advocate”.

Elaine I like your response (Dr. Mark is a trip- he makes me laugh) but I don’t know about contacting Jonathan first. This is what I would tell HER: Yes, it would be nice to beef up with some validation knowing when you confront Bart you have an emotional out. But as difficult as it is, you must live for the moment with all the pain and disappointment in order to make a viable choice to confront and face the consequences. Jonathan is a crutch, worse than that he is an illusion created to ease your pain. You have to own this pain to have a real resolution to your marital crisis. If Bart is cheating on you, you have to face that. You were presented a breech to your trust in your marriage, you must face that. Jonathan can’t help you with this issue. Talk to Bart first.

LOL! Oh God no! If this is sexually speaking, I have an easier time on this one than some ladies. But they shouldn’t be ashamed really; to each her own. I’m happy to report that my second (and final) husband is number 10! Perfect. If you’re counting the many childhood camp, babysitting and slumber party experiences as well as the family bed, well that’s many people (and pets) indeed!

I appreciate the insights ladies, but I didn’t understand one d**n thing you were talking about? Ya’ll are going to have to take a hit on this one. Do you really KNOW who’s reading this site? LOL! I can’t keep gas in the car!! My mother does my hair and my ONLY personal grooming expense is getting a manicure and pedicure every six weeks or more. If I could bring someone to my dinner table and benefit from their knowledge, it would be my pediatrician Dr. Darden. She is an amazing woman and I admire her heart and extensive knowledge of children’s health. I have healthy children and it’s in part because of her loving care!

It looks like many of us have a long commute; we run in the house straight for the bathroom! LOL

I enjoy CBS news. I hate to say that Couric hasn’t probably lived up to expectations. If the evening news is not a good fit, she’s a good journalist and I would like to see her on 60 minutes.

Indifference, hate, greed, insincerity, brutality, pessimism and fear.

I used to sleep nude 75% of the time. Those days are over; we have small children and I’m trying to teach them modesty. So now it’s a cotton tank nightgown, it’s lightweight, comfortable and doesn’t twist around me when I’m sleeping.

Some of us want to hide our stretch marks on our stomachs. I hated mine after 3 babies, but I’ve learned to be at peace with them. I now choose to see them as the sign of 3 healthy pregnancies and 3 beautiful, healthy children. Besides, hubby ain’t complaining (smile)

I would tell this young woman the following: Seek God first. There is NO ONE who will love you more than Him. In seeking God’s plan for your life you will be equipped to handle whatever comes your way good or bad. The life of a 21st century woman is very challenging. If you choose to pursue both family and career simultaneously, it’s going to be tough. Wait on committing to a man and establish your goals and finances independently. If you plan to continue your studies, go as far as you plan to go NOW. It’s hard to find the right timing go back to college after you have married and had children. But most of all, love and respect yourself and believe in your God-given ability to love and respect others.