Friends are a gift from God. They bring love and laughter.

I got married at 19. Not smart.

I’ve recently been forced to examine my trust issues with women. I need to relax and just open up. I like my sisters at church and very much enjoy the fellowship. No one on one connection yet, I don’t take it personally- everyone is busy. I like the suggestions to join a social activity, but as a busy working mom that’s a challenge.

Good advice from the previous posters. Many ways to go. The best thing is to do what’s best for you at that moment. If you don’t want to face infidelity then, it’s okay. The next time he does something suspicious, you’ll be ready. Understand that when you confront him based on what your intuition is already presenting, his reaction may or may not confirm what you suspect. The cooler approach is the best. “Honey I noticed your underwear was on backward last night, were you in a hurry this morning?” That one question is enough. I call it progressive discipline. He is then officially on notice that if he does not correct the behavior, he continue to make mistakes and get caught.

This subject is where I live and breathe. I can’t help but rely on my intuition on a regular basis in all aspects of my life. I don’t know where I would be without that extra sense of perception. And it’s true that even when you take an action based on your gut, you could be wrong. What’s important is that you made a choice. I’ve just begun reading “Choice Theory” by Dr. William Glasser, so this is an interesting topic. I personally believe that to not make the choice (based on your instincts) is worse than stepping out and possibly being wrong.

Happy Birthday Viagra! Aren’t you a faternal twin?